CollegeGrad.com
Advanced Search | Job Index

Job Center

Preparation

Explore Careers

Resumes

Cover Letters

Interview Prep

Find the Job

Job Search Advice

Post Resume

Search Jobs

Search Internships

Search Employers

Virtual Career Fair

Offer

Salary

Negotiation

New Job Advice

Job Videos

Employers

Career Centers

Additional Help

Job Hunter Newsletter
_

The Handshake Matching Technique

Disclaimer: please note that all of the links were active as of the newsletter publication, but some may become inactive over time.

Previous | View 2007 Newsletters | | Next

--------------------

IN THIS ISSUE:

--------------------

Contents

- Job Search Tip of the Week, by Brian Krueger, author of "College Grad Job Hunter," the #1 book for entry level job search:

"The Handshake Matching Technique"

Apply the same principle of the Personality Matching Technique to handshakes. Don't get confused by the "too hard" or "too soft" handshake psychology baloney. There is no absolute when it comes to handshakes because the effectiveness of the handshake is defined by the recipient. So is the handshake unimportant? No. But it would be wrong to attempt to come up with "the perfect handshake." There is no such thing, since each person receiving your handshake has their own definition of perfection. It's relative to the person who has your fingers in their grasp. Therefore, a truly effective handshake is going to be a "mirror" of the handshake being offered. Match the person's handshake the same as you would their voice or posture.

While personality matching is dynamic and takes place over an extended period of time, the handshake lasts just one to two seconds. So how do you adjust? Use a medium-grip handshake, placing your hand so that the soft skin between your thumb and forefinger comes in contact with the same location on the recipient's hand. Then be prepared to squeeze down on the gorilla or lighten up on the softie, as necessary. Don't get into a wrestling contest. Again, just as in personality matching, you don't have to match the extremes. Just move to that end of your "handshake range." Practice a few times with a friend. Or better yet, practice with a loved one.

Next newsletter: "The Eight Types of Interview Questions"

--------------------

Contents

- Help Spread The Word!

Do you know of someone who can benefit from the information in this newsletter? Simply forward this e-mail to them and tell them to subscribe at http://www.CollegeGrad.com/newsletter. Thanks for spreading the good word!

Contents

Job Search Links:

--------------------

Contents

- Job Search Book Online

There are at least two other entry level Web sites that offer books on job searching, proclaming that they will tell you everything you need to know about entry level job search.

However, there is a very important point about these books they don't mention up front: they cost money.

At CollegeGrad.com, we give you two things they don't:

1. The #1 entry level job search book ("College Grad Job Hunter").
2. It's free.

It's that simple. So don't buy the hype. Read the real information you need for FREE:

http://www.CollegeGrad.com/book

Don't ever pay for books or reports or resources of lower quality when you can access the very best quality information for free.

P.S. Yes, you can buy "College Grad Job Hunter" in hardcopy format as well at Amazon.com for $15 (actually, 30% off that price), but the online version is better. Why? Because the version at Amazon.com (the 2003 edition) is being continually updated at CollegeGrad.com. So the most current version of the book is actually the online, free version.

Contents

- Sponsor: Lower Your Monthly Payments on Student Loans

Want to lower the monthly payments on existing student loans while locking in a fixed rate? Act now to consolidate your student loans:

https://CollegeGrad.slcp.com


Previous | View 2007 Newsletters | | Next

Education Center

 Featured Articles

FIND A DEGREE

Zip Code:
Subject:
Degree:
Online Campus
  Both

FEATURED SCHOOLS